As parents, our instinct is to protect—but what our teens need most is preparation. Especially for those with neurodivergent needs or facing life transitions, hovering can unintentionally delay the very growth we hope to encourage. This article explores how to shift from doing things for our teens to empowering them to do things on their own. With real-world strategies and a printable checklist, parents will learn how to reduce enabling habits and foster the confidence, responsibility, and life skills teens need to thrive independently.